9 weeks and still (sadly) counting

Well I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm at a complete loss. Did the epidural injection work? It might have helped a little with the inflammation in the nerve in my spine, but I still have pain in my shoulder and down my arm, as well as pins and needles. My trapezius muscles are v. v. tight. I asked Dr. P what to do and he said I could try at home traction (don't have one), muscle relaxers, or dry needling. So I tried the muscle relaxers. Of course the next day when he got back to me he said which ones to try, and the one I used was left over from my hip surgery. All it did was give me restless leg syndrome and I was up all night from it, dry as a bone, eyes hurting from being so dry and dehydrated. Must remember to toss out any remaining pills. It was something w/ at T. Anyway then I rang my acupuncturist. He said that he could try some treatment that wouldn't increase the inflammation. I went last night, and felt a little better after, even though the needles hurt like hell - surprising because they don't really normally hurt. But today my neck /spine hurts and the shoulder hurts and the pins and needles are still the same. I'm am going to lose what is left of my mind. Mark did notice last night that my right side seemed weaker - I told him I'm not surprised b/c I've been guarding it and using my left side - which explained why when he touched my left trapezius muscle I screamed - it's been working overtime. Thank goodness it is Friday and I don't have to sit for two days at a computer. I am getting very worried though because time is running out to sort this before October and Italy. There is no way I'll survive that trip like this. Something must be done! Two weeks until I see the anesthesiologist again, perhaps I should see if I can get an appointment sooner. He might have to do another epidural. I also definitely need an MRI of my shoulder, so wondering if I should have that arranged because perhaps this is coming from there as well and a shot in there would be good? I don't mean the one Dr. P. did a month ago, I mean like they did with my hip where they really get into the joint. I have to ask someone and hopefully get some information because I am so worn out I could just give up at this point - and I'm sadly not even trying to be dramatic.

Calling for help

I've been busy researching dry needling in NYC and writing letters to any organisation that might have a clue as to what direction to point me, since none of my doctors are familiar with it. I just sent this email to the International Myopain Society:

"Hi. I was recently in Holland visiting a friend and she took me to her physio as I was in a lot of pain. Recently I had an MRI that showed disc bulging, herniated discs and stenosis in my cervical spine. I was sent to a neurologist who sent me for the MRI because I had constant pins and needles shooting down my right arm.
I also have EDS - hypermobility, fibromyalgia, TMJ, mild scoliosis and more things I probably can't remember at this moment. I have also had 4 reconstructive hand surgeries, and hip surgery to deal with a torn labrum, psoas release and FAI.
Anyway, I went to see this brilliant physio, Remco, in Den Haag and he did some traction on my neck, adjusted C2 for the TMJ and also adjusted my lower back and did dry needling in my trapezius muscle. It was the first time since the constant pins and needles started that I had relief. I didn't have them for 4 days, and it is still much less than it was.
The thing is, I really need to find someone who can work on me here. I have a chiro, but he's not allowed to do much else other than electric stim and massage and stretching. That helps, but only mildly. I was hoping that you would be able to recommend someone in Manhattan that works with my kind of mess of a body and does dry needling.
If you would I'd so appreciate it.
Thank you very much for your time."

Yes I am desperate! I am hoping someone will respond from one of my cries for help and tell me they know someone in the area. I did find this Dutch-trained physio who would be perfect, but of course he A) is in Bethesda, MD and B) doesn't take insurance. Part of me wants to go down to see him anyway, and he lives close to my aunt and uncle, so...I may just have to. I think I will send him an email as well. His name is Jan Dommerholt and he sounds brilliant.

I go for the EMG test on Monday, my mother is coming with me. Yes, I'm a baby, but I don't fancy someone sticking needles into me and then electrocuting me. We shall see what the darling neurologist has to say about my reports then as well. I have no faith in her at this point, but will bring my research and show her, after she says her opinion.

At present, the neck and back hurt, plus the usual "it's high humidity and low pressure" fibro crap, so going to go to the PT pool after work and hopefully it will be quiet and empty and I can just relax in there for a while.